Psalms 130:24 Point out anything in me that offends you, and lead me along the path of everlasting life.
This is not an easy thing to say to God but, it is one of the most important things we can say to God. The more we listen to God about what he wants us to do and what he wants us to stop doing the better off we will be. The more we know, the more we grow. When we are offending God we have obstacles in the way of our relationship with God. When we remove those obstacles it clears the path for better communication. We need to be able to hear God at all times so we can become as wonderful as God intends for us to be. If there is ever anything between us and God is is something that we are doing, it isn't something God is doing. The wonderful thing is God doesn't make us guess what we have done to offend him, God will tell us if we ask. Then we can ask forgiveness and God grants that forgiveness. Unlike people God doesn't hold grudges or keep a list of how we have done wrong, God throws our sins as far as the east is from the west so that we can move forward and become better. God wants us to get our sins out of the way so we can be better. Facing what we have done is the hard part, getting past it is easy when we have the grace of God.