Isaiah 30:18 So the Lord must wait for you to come to him so he can show you his love and compassion. For the Lord is a faithful God. Blessed are those who wait for his help.
If we want God's help... and we should want it all the time... we need it all the time that is for sure... if we want God's help we must go to him and ask for it... when we do God will show us his love compassion... so if we are not seeing God's love in our lives we need to stop and ask ourselves, "Did I invite God into my day today... into this problem... into this happy moment?" if you haven't then stop and do just that... don't take the moment back over, don't try to worry it out of existence... leave it with God and he will take care of it... God will take care of all parts of our lives, our days, our moments... but first we have to go to him and ask.