Psalms 139:24 (God) Point out anything in me that offends you, and leads me along the path of everlasting life.
I think oh what a scary thing to ask God!!...but you know God already knows!... Psalms 139:1 says O Lord, your have examined my heart and know everything about me. So God already knows what is in us that offends him!... To become closer to God we need to be brave enough, and willing to know what is in us that offends God... and if we know, if we ask God to tell us we can change it!.. but if we are afraid we will keep offending God... and God will know even if we don't. Be brave... ask God!.. then you can ask forgiveness... and move forward.. awareness is a powerful thing... and remember God already knows and God loves us anyway!... If we are brave and face our fear... and lean what we are doing that offends God we can quit doing it and remove the very things that are getting in the way of the wonderful blessings God has in store for us!